Why do you think Marriages dont last now adays?

This is a looooooooooooooooooooong and winding road of emotions and thoughts for me!!!!!!!!!

I think that now days alot of ppl just get married to be married!!!!!!! They arent really in love, They think they are in love they want to be in love but I have said time and time again! You can NOT go hunting for love! LOVE will find you!!!!!!!!!! You dont just trip and happen to fall in love! I just dont believe that at all! I did get married at a young age!!!!!! I was 18 and my hubby was 16.  And let me just tell you!!!!!!!!!!! Love is a ROLLER COASTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!! with many dips,turns,whoops,swoops, loops and SCREAMS! No doubt about that at alll! I have been married 13yrs now and been with my husband for 15yrs Aug. 27th 2012 made 15yrs for us.  We have Three BEAUTIFUL children! and I am sooooo proud of what we do have. 

I truely think that the reason most marriages done last is because ppl give up to soon, but then I look at it another way as well sometimes ppl just need to walk away and they DONT.  A marriage is suppose to be threw sickness and health til death do us part!   With todays Techinology and things that we have in this world to do things we shouldnt and be unfaithful and for those to be able to be stalkers on their spouses and figure out what they are doin wrong are MOST DEF some of the reasons Marriage dont last today!  And for some ungodly reason I do believe that there is sooooooooooooo much more Drama in this world today than there has ever been.  What in the world possess ppl to get into other ppls business.  Or to go behind ppl's backs and talk about others.  I just cant stand a TWO FACED person not what sooo ever and another one of my soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much hated is a LIAR.

For me as a Child of Divorced parents it totallllllllllly sucks ass!! I truely believe it but I also have had friends that lived with their parents that didnt get a divorce and thought it was either best to stay together for the kids or for some other reason and my friends say thats just as bad if not worse!  I have soooooooooo many mixed emotions with this topic its not even funny! I dont really no the right answer and I dont really no the Best Answer I just no that I feel like Love is a STRONG WORD, but there is soooooooooooo many different types of love to me tooo.  But to be IN LOVE its the best feeling you could ever have in your life and I truely believe that when u find your soulmate that it will last forever!!!!!!!!! The sad parts of this is that not everyone believes this??????? :O why dont you believe this??????? Its crazy that ppl feel that love dont last forever and that ppl fall outta love! I just dont think ppl fall outta love! I dont think it was TRUE love in the first place for you to FALLL outta LOOOOOVE no! I dont believe!!!!! For those ppl that say all the time that ppl change YES ppl change I no that, but to be such a negative nancy about love how can you ever truely tell someone that u are IN LOVE WITH THEM!!!!!!!!!!!! Do you ever let your guard down? 

People now days let other ppl or things come inbetween there marriages and their love for one another! People dont try as hard as they use too, People dont want one person to love! they want to have their cake and eat it too! thats not LOVE! that will never be LOVE and until they find TRUE LOVE!!!!!!!! I feel sorrry for those ppl and I hope that ppl can start to realize that if someone else isnt happy they want to make you miserable too!!!!!!!!!! 

I totally bumped all about this topic and prob didnt even make since but this was my rant and rave for the nite and I hope that I get some feed back on this topic and some feelings on this topic from your point of view.  Til then GOOD DAY :D