Why do you think Marriages dont last now adays?

This is a looooooooooooooooooooong and winding road of emotions and thoughts for me!!!!!!!!!

I think that now days alot of ppl just get married to be married!!!!!!! They arent really in love, They think they are in love they want to be in love but I have said time and time again! You can NOT go hunting for love! LOVE will find you!!!!!!!!!! You dont just trip and happen to fall in love! I just dont believe that at all! I did get married at a young age!!!!!! I was 18 and my hubby was 16.  And let me just tell you!!!!!!!!!!! Love is a ROLLER COASTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!! with many dips,turns,whoops,swoops, loops and SCREAMS! No doubt about that at alll! I have been married 13yrs now and been with my husband for 15yrs Aug. 27th 2012 made 15yrs for us.  We have Three BEAUTIFUL children! and I am sooooo proud of what we do have. 

I truely think that the reason most marriages done last is because ppl give up to soon, but then I look at it another way as well sometimes ppl just need to walk away and they DONT.  A marriage is suppose to be threw sickness and health til death do us part!   With todays Techinology and things that we have in this world to do things we shouldnt and be unfaithful and for those to be able to be stalkers on their spouses and figure out what they are doin wrong are MOST DEF some of the reasons Marriage dont last today!  And for some ungodly reason I do believe that there is sooooooooooooo much more Drama in this world today than there has ever been.  What in the world possess ppl to get into other ppls business.  Or to go behind ppl's backs and talk about others.  I just cant stand a TWO FACED person not what sooo ever and another one of my soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much hated is a LIAR.

For me as a Child of Divorced parents it totallllllllllly sucks ass!! I truely believe it but I also have had friends that lived with their parents that didnt get a divorce and thought it was either best to stay together for the kids or for some other reason and my friends say thats just as bad if not worse!  I have soooooooooo many mixed emotions with this topic its not even funny! I dont really no the right answer and I dont really no the Best Answer I just no that I feel like Love is a STRONG WORD, but there is soooooooooooo many different types of love to me tooo.  But to be IN LOVE its the best feeling you could ever have in your life and I truely believe that when u find your soulmate that it will last forever!!!!!!!!! The sad parts of this is that not everyone believes this??????? :O why dont you believe this??????? Its crazy that ppl feel that love dont last forever and that ppl fall outta love! I just dont think ppl fall outta love! I dont think it was TRUE love in the first place for you to FALLL outta LOOOOOVE no! I dont believe!!!!! For those ppl that say all the time that ppl change YES ppl change I no that, but to be such a negative nancy about love how can you ever truely tell someone that u are IN LOVE WITH THEM!!!!!!!!!!!! Do you ever let your guard down? 

People now days let other ppl or things come inbetween there marriages and their love for one another! People dont try as hard as they use too, People dont want one person to love! they want to have their cake and eat it too! thats not LOVE! that will never be LOVE and until they find TRUE LOVE!!!!!!!! I feel sorrry for those ppl and I hope that ppl can start to realize that if someone else isnt happy they want to make you miserable too!!!!!!!!!! 

I totally bumped all about this topic and prob didnt even make since but this was my rant and rave for the nite and I hope that I get some feed back on this topic and some feelings on this topic from your point of view.  Til then GOOD DAY :D

A Bit of a Change :D

Soooooooo I think Ive decided that Im goin to change this pages name and start to RANT AND RAVE and just share away!!!!!!!! its my page and I can do what I want right ;) RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!! sooooooooo Here we go on the repair/Construction and rebuild of Pooh to Shits and Grins, Sharts and Farts!!!!!!! yea I no its a bit much but I LOOOOOOOVE IT! and I just want to have a place to just be me!!!!!!!!!!!! Hope everyone will come and join in on the fun!!!!!! comment and share away!!!!!!!!!!!! At times it maybe Blunt but other times not soooo you are WARNED :D have a Great day and I hope to seee alllllllll My fam and friends here to RANT AND RAVE with me and of course New friends as well :D XOXOXO Pooh

Goodbye Red Hello Purple

I loooooooooooooooooooooved my Red bthrm but I was sooooooo ready for a change sooooooooooooo as I said in my last post I found a Chefrobe that I loooooooved the colors of and I decided to do the whole bathroom in that design and color here is the Chefrobe(spell Check)

 RED Bathrooom :D I stilll love it but I guesssss its gone now lol hahahaha

 Hello Purple!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and yes I still got some painting tooo do :D Im kinda short sooooooooooo I gotta get me a Step ladder to finish the rest :D

Im also going to probally paint the cabinets beneath the sinks not so sure yet but thinking soooo.  I will def post more pics when I get more stuff to decorate my new purple bathroom with :D XOXO

A Little Duct Tape :D

Ok so Ive been Remodeling here and there in the house this summer and repainting and what not!!!! sooo Im going to share some new projects Ive done this here is my first I want to share :D. I went to walmart the other day and seen Zebra Striped Duct tape I was like hrmmmmmmm Ill just get 2 rolls and see what I Can do with this :D. So here is what I got so far :D

The tools I used:
Scissors
Duct Tape(zebra Print)
& Anything I wanted to reburbish so far for the bthrm


                                       I Just wrapped the Toothbrush holder with the duct tape I started at the top because if u have extra u can either cut it off or fold it under the bottom.  REMEMBER u might not be able to have it sit level if u tuck it under the bottom.

 Ohhhh What else can I duct tape lol YUP my other set that we use in the bthrm I acutally bought this set at Family Dollar it came with the soap dish,Toothbrush holder Im Im thinking Glass not sure lol and the shower curtain and shower curtain hooks.  Im stilll Debating on what to do with the Shower curtain and Hooks. 

 Allllllll Done :D I just repainted my bthrm I found this  picture on Pinterest of a Chefrobe(spell check) that I wanted to paint something like it and OMG I soooooooooooooooooooooooo did My whole entire Bathroom lol hahah

The Color is a bit diff but I had to guess on the color but Im still workin on the rest of the decor Hope you liked this Blog take care XOXO